They had nothing to say to each other. A five-year age gap between siblings is like a garden that needs constant attention. Even three months apart allows the weeds to grow up between you.

Zadie Smith
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Often people grow up in an environment where they are not allowed to have their own feelings. They are expected to always follow the rules that their parents set out. If they do not, then they will be punished. They are not allowed to have their own opinions on things.

If they do, then they will be ignored. If they complain about something, it will be their problem and theirs alone. People who are siblings may not be able to talk with each other for at least three months out of the year because their parents are too busy for them to get together.

Source: On Beauty

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